Life Sucks

Nothing to look forward to? Do you feel like you’re living the same disappointing day over and over. Stuck! What are you going to do about it? You are the only one who can change your life, no one can do it for you. All you need is the desire, a promise to yourself, determination and maybe a few tools.

Desire for Change

When you say “life sucks”, how serious are you about changing it? Many people secretly like their life even though it sucks, they secretly enjoy the chaos or rigidity and they don't want or may not be ready for change. So ask yourself: Do I really want success do I really want change? Or do I just want to pretend to try so I can tell yourself “see I can’t change but at least I tried”? Only you know the answer. Deep down, you know when you are ready and when you are not. So either you honestly want to change your life or you should QUIT complaining that life sucks.

Truth

This may sound harsh or even mean, I am just being truthful. If you are one of those people who just complain but have no real intention of changing, then you are just wasting your precious time - nobody else's. You’re just not ready to start doing and that’s okay.

Why Your Life Sucks

Your life sucks because you’re not happy. It’s not the other way around. It’s easy to think that it is though. That if only you had a bit more good in your life, then you would be happy. It seems like an honest way to think about feeling better. First, improve your life, then you will feel better, but it doesn’t work like that. Being happy is really just your choice. Regardless of your circumstances, it is your choice how you feel. You are in control of your mind and this is where happiness begins.

Stop Complaining

Stop taking life so seriously, nothing really matters as much as you think it does. Get excited about your life. If you prefer to just to complain that life sucks then I'm curious:

• Why are you clinging to something that obvious doesn't work?

• What's it costing you?

It Is Your Decision

If a happy life is your desire and you are willing to put the work required to first find out who you are and what you want and need, then you need to make a decision.

Is it time you put an end

to the complaining and start doing

1. Replace “Why me?” with “What next?”

Why me?” is a waning phrase. It increase our feelings of victimization and incapability. By intentionally replacing it with “What next?” we not only gain back a feeling of control, but also figure out what we can actually do.

2. Force yourself to practice gratitude.

No matter what you are dealing with, there is always, always something to be grateful for. Force yourself to say it out loud a few times. Your heart and your mind will soon catch up.

3. Quit blaming.

When you’re hurt, it is equally natural to look for someone to blame. Blame only serves to prolong the hurt. It makes us angry and corrodes us from the inside. It brings negativity into our life. If something is meant to be, it will happen. That’s it. Deal with it and move on.

So suck it up Princess and Get to work on your life, if you’re not ready that’s okay, however then you need to quit complaining about it. Complaining/venting can only happen ones then I’m going to ask you “And what are you going to do about it”?

Lets Start Doing!

#change